Plan for the future, but don't lose sight of the present

In Paris with my daughter!

Life really has a way of keeping us busy, doesn’t it? The to-do lists get longer and there is always another reason to wait. I have found myself saying “Maybe next year” or “Once things calm down.” But here is the truth: there often is never a perfect time.

We spend so much time waiting for the right moment, that someday you might just find that you’ve run out of moments altogether. Those same responsibilities and routines that you’ve made to build yourself up, can become the thing that pulls you away from the reason you are doing it all in the first place.

Taking the trip, trying the new thing, or saying "yes" to an adventure isn’t about being reckless or ignoring your commitments; it’s about recognizing that your time is valuable, too.

I know as a real estate agent, I’m supposed to tell you to spend your time and money responsibly, especially if homeownership or real estate investing is a dream you have your heart set on. And hey, I am here to help with that too! I love helping people find the perfect home or make smart moves to build their future wealth. Those are goals worth pursuing, and they absolutely matter. But here’s the thing, while it’s essential to plan for the future, it’s just as important not to lose sight of the present.

The memories you make today, whether it’s a weekend getaway, dinner with friends, or checking something off your bucket list, are part of what makes life rich and fulfilling. You don’t have to choose between living now and planning for the future; you can balance both. After all, a house becomes a home because of the experiences you have and the people you share it with, not just because it’s a smart financial decision.

If you’re waiting for a sign, here it is: take the trip.